If you’re feeling stuck it’s important to recognize that you may be holding yourself back from success. You may have several alibis of why this happens but none of them are true. They may seem true, and it is what you have believed.
For many years I blamed how other people treated me and made me feel was the cause of me loosing focus and energy to achieve my goals, but in fact, it was my mind allowing those things to hold me back. As long as it took me to realize it was me was as long as it took to move forward.
Typical Alibi’s:
No one ever listens
I tired before
My mother said I shouldn’t
They don’t respect me
It’s not the right time
I have other things to do, etc
To build your self-confidence and open up new possibilities, you must take those risks anyway. There will always be several reasons you tell yourself you shouldn’t and there may be people around that makes you feel like it’s impossible. But none of that matters. All that matters is your self belief and determination. No one can take that from you, you would have to give that away yourself.

If you find yourself struggling to take on opportunities, start small. Look for low-risk opportunities that align with your goals and interests. As you build your confidence and skills, you can gradually take on bigger challenges.
Remember, opportunities are all around you, but you need to be open and receptive to them. By embracing new experiences and challenges, you’ll build your self-confidence and unlock new possibilities for growth and success.
Embracing Challenges:
How Constantly Challenging Yourself Can Boost Self-Confidence
If you want to be successful and reach your higher self, you will
constantly challenge yourself. It doesn’t matter what market you are in but you need to move beyond what your comfort and guide yourself through new heights.
If you struggle with low self-confidence, you may see these
challenges as hassles. But as you face those challenges you will make discomfort
work for you.
Consistently challenging yourself impacts your self-confidence. Breaking out of your routine and trying new things, you’ll discover new strengths and abilities you never knew you had.
Gradually as you become accustomed to trusting yourself and your abilities more, and you will develop new patterns of habits that causes you to push forward every time.
Embrace the opportunity to grow and learn, and you’ll be amazed
at how high your self-confidence becomes.
