Define Purpose in Relationships

Every Choice You Make Should Have Defined Purpose

Why should create and define a purpose in relationships ? An undefined purpose can destroy you. It can make you do things that you don’t enjoy or find meaning in.

At some point in life, maybe ten years from now, you’ll regret not having purpose and the time you spent aiming to define one later. If you run after an undefined purpose relationship, you will realize it sooner or later. In the beginning, it may seem like you are doing things right. But at some point, you will realize everything is wrong.

You look around and comfort yourself by saying that everyone else is doing it or worse off have no relationship. Yet, deep inside, you lack contentment and fulfillment. Then, you have an awakening, a time when everything comes crashing down. You realize how you can’t make this right no matter what.

You think to yourself, “What have I done wrong,” “How am I even in this situation?”, “How can I make my life more fulfilling?” “Didn’t I spend my life, learning and working to avoid this?” Maybe you did not establish purpose. A relationship with no purpose is an open door for heart break.

If you define your purpose in relationships, only then do you find meaning in it. You have to listen to yourself. What is your inner being saying to you? Did you create purpose for your relationship?

You can’t listen to what’s comfortable. Don’t be afraid of being judged. Don’t be someone you don’t have to be.

Your true purpose is something you want, something that you have thought of. It”s just what you want. Even if you ignore or fail to define this, you will be reminded everyday at some point of what you really want. It will be miserable and you will act it out in some way. It could be taken out on yourself or onto others. It could negative effect your life and difficult to correct. Accountability to yourself and what you want in life be the next step.

Lessons Learned: I realized that I had gotten into the wrong relationship. The relationship had neither purpose or direction. Although I had created purpose and direction for myself during the relationship, I was the only one who had. After a long while, I had realized that my life was being pulled in different directions, forward, stuck and backwards. When you choose a partner who doesn’t have a definite plan or definite aim in your life, you will live in a whirlpool. A whirlpool goes around and around with the same waves never changing. It appears that you are moving forward but after a long whole you will realize that you are going in circles and nothing improves.

When you have a definite aim and defined purpose in relationships only will you realize that you are in a whirlpool and have to find a way out. That’s not easy but necessary for your growth a development.

The beauty of having a definite aim and purpose in relationships is you are a true person. You will have to drag yourself if you have no purpose. Instead, you’ll just drain your good energy and your passion could get lost. You can find yourself using your energy to be okay everyday and not using it to better yourself or situation.

When you define your purpose, you do everything fearlessly. When you don’t create purpose, it is often due to fear. The fear of being rejected by a person you care about.

However, when you create true purpose, you do it with love. There’s no fear of letting anyone down. You know you’re doing it for harmony with another.

How Can You Define Purpose in Relationships?

If you want to define purpose for your relationships, you need to listen to yourself only. Spend time with yourself and learn yourself.You’ll find what drives you in harmony with others. If you care enough for the other, you’ll find things that excites them. The most important thing is to be in harmony.

Don’t fear failure but be ready to face it. Don’t fear rejection but build the resilience to face it. Love doesn’t always lasts. People might tell you that you have disappointed them, but when two are in harmony with each other, solutions emerge. If they don’t emerge, you may be in a relationship that has no aim or purpose or even worse, a false purpose. Have the gratitude to appreciate love when it’s there and gratitude to let it go when love and harmony decides to leave or refused to appear.

You might be wondering, “How do I know I am defining my purpose?” To find this, see if the relationship makes you feel fulfilled? Is the other person adding value to your purpose and are they providing harmony for you?

If you’re following your true purpose, you’ll feel inspired by it every day. You’ll find new things in it to love every day. An undefined purpose will show flaws very soon and very often.

Define purpose to your relationship. If you have defined purpose in advance, you will always notice when things are off much faster and won’t waste time unaware of manipulation that could be difficult to detect early on.

Defining your purpose will give you a clear indication about your next move. This will ensure that you aren’t going in pursuit of anything against your core values.

James MacNeil says, “Whatever you love brings you peace and joy. That is living on purpose”. The philosophy behind this is to let yourself in. Allow yourself to be true to you and you won’t need to find yourself. Your true self will just appear in front of you. You automatically know what’s right and what’s not for you. This is the way to work towards your true purpose. Just be yourself and never accept anything that makes you unhappy.

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