Did you make a decision that you did not want to? Growing people do that everyday. The hard part is that the human brain is wired for growth. We all have a point in life that we need to break up with comfort in order to break to the next level. Here’s where I started:

Hi, Share-Rel Christina here serving the space of personal development and I help believers reach higher vibes for personal success. This is through thinking positive. Since before the age of 8, I asked questions about the meaning of life. My favorite books in school were Ramona Quimby, Nancy Drew and Charolette’s Web. Through these favorites I was seeking the meaning of life. As a child, I always wondered how the adult process worked. Growing up in my environment, I remember hearing adults say that I would understand when I got older. I just wondered how that worked, was it magical, can I start now?
I always found myself looking for that magic within. Why did I have to wait? I always wondered that it was there now and did adults have to choose it or did it just happen? Here are things I learned on the Break Through Journey.

1. Breakup & Breakthrough.
After assuming responsibility to breakup with prior habits, you do it over and over again until a sense of peace come over your fears. The more you keep going, the more confident you become and start recognizing that you alone are enough to make this change.
2. Shift Consistently.
When taking action against something that has been holding you back for a while, you are starting a rhythm to understand the inner pain you felt for a long time. Constant movement in action eases the pains in your heart. If you keep going, you can channel your pain into creating something positive for your life and help others in the process. This is called transmutation.
3. Keep Going.
Consistent actions will help you to put your pain in proper perspective. If you keep moving forward, you will one day find that the pain was actually designed to help you grow and to see a bigger purpose that will be used as a guide to manage your future views.

4. Grow.
Working through your pain or change, your views grow, your perspectives widens and your decisions starts to line up with your goals. Your maturity level increases and the way you start to look at life develops in mental healthy ways.
5. Have a Better Tomorrow.
Things and people may not change. But when you continue to grow you will be able to accept things that you have no control over and not the worry about your expectations. Being able to accept things in a different way will set up a better tomorrow and for a better you.

Once you prove to yourself that a new life is possible, it is hard to go back to the mistaken beliefs about yourself. Your beliefs about the future and what is possible will be so greater. You will find yourself wanting to explore parts of yourself you never knew were there and things start to make sense about how you got on the path. Keep moving forward until prove this to yourself.
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