Careful of Friendships now that you’re on a Solopreneur Journey.

Hello, Share-Rel Christina for Solopreneurs to provide personal development strategist with heart-heart women on their Solopreneur Journey. Supporting your mindset on through your Business Journey. If you are open, receptive and available to adopt new insights, I have put together a personal development checkpoint that covers 4 major ways that friendships impact your life. Here are some STAR Points to keep in mind when you are working on your business and personal development goals.

It’s mandatory to understand how friends influence you. They can alter your true beliefs. Beliefs and values can be changed if they are constantly challenged and when new beliefs are constantly repeated. This happens often in your Solopreneur Journey. It is important to have friends but also more important to maintain yourself as an individual on your Solopreneur Journey because you are already likely to be misunderstood. Keep your focus on your personal growth and development when maintaining relationships and with family friends. Be sure to protect core values that can be lost if you are not careful.

Here are 4 areas thats friends can impact your critical thinking.

  1. Beliefs and Values

Friends can have a significant impact on your beliefs and values. This is especially true when you spend a lot of time with friends who have different beliefs and values than you do. While it’s important to have friends who challenge you and help you grow, it’s also essential to maintain your core beliefs and values. This can help you stay true to yourself and avoid getting swayed by the opinions of others.

  1. Self-Image

Friends can also impact your self-image. If you surround yourself with friends who are negative and critical, it can be challenging to maintain a positive self-image. On the other hand, if you surround yourself with friends who are supportive and encouraging, it can help you develop a strong sense of self-worth and confidence. It’s important to choose friends who uplift and inspire you.

  1. Decision Making

Friends can also impact your decision-making process. If you have friends who are impulsive and make decisions without much thought, it can be tempting to follow their lead. However, it’s essential to make decisions that align with your goals and values, even if it means going against the opinions of your friends. It’s important to surround yourself with friends who respect your decisions and support you in your journey.

  1. Emotional Well-being

Finally, friends can impact your emotional well-being. If you surround yourself with friends who are constantly negative and critical, it can be challenging to maintain a positive outlook on life. On the other hand, if you surround yourself with friends who are positive and uplifting, it can help you stay motivated and focused on your goals. It’s important to choose friends who bring positivity and joy into your life.

Friends can have a significant impact on your life, especially as a solopreneur. While it’s essential to have a strong support system, it’s also important to maintain your individuality and stay true to your values and goals. Choose friends who uplift and inspire you and remember to prioritize your emotional well-being and decision-making process. By doing so, you can build a strong support system that helps you thrive on your solopreneur journey.

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“Owning Your Actions: Practical Steps to Accountability and Achieving Your Goals”

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There comes a time when life becomes your responsibility and you either stay stuck or grow.

Accountability is a crucial component of personal and professional growth. It is a vital skill that helps individuals take responsibility for their actions, decisions, and outcomes, and it is a necessary step towards achieving success in all aspects of life. In this blog, we will explore five essential steps that can help you become more accountable in your personal and professional life.

Step 1: Accept Accountability (Choice)

The first step towards accountability is to accept responsibility for your actions. This means taking ownership of your mistakes, acknowledging your weaknesses, and recognizing the impact your actions have on those around you. Accepting accountability is not always easy, but it is a necessary step towards personal and professional growth.

Step 2: Conquer Your Emotions (Rule your World)

Emotions can often cloud our judgment and prevent us from taking accountability for our actions. It’s essential to learn how to manage our emotions and not let them control our actions. This means learning to be self-aware and recognizing when our emotions are getting the best of us. It also means learning to communicate effectively, even when we are feeling emotional.

Step 3: Do What You Are Afraid to Do (Step Out of Comfort Zone)

Fear can be a significant obstacle to accountability. It’s easy to avoid taking responsibility for our actions when we are afraid of the consequences. However, doing what you are afraid to do is an essential step towards accountability. It means stepping outside your comfort zone, facing your fears, and taking action despite your fears.

Step 4: Have a Wonderful Attitude (Gratitude)

Having a positive attitude is crucial when it comes to accountability. A positive attitude can help you stay motivated, even when things get tough. It can also help you stay focused on your goals and keep you moving forward, even when you encounter obstacles. A positive attitude can also help you maintain healthy relationships with those around you.

Believing in yourself is perhaps the most important step towards accountability. If you don’t believe in yourself, it’s hard to take responsibility for your actions and take the necessary steps towards personal and professional growth. Believing in yourself means recognizing your strengths, acknowledging your weaknesses, and having faith in your abilities to overcome challenges and achieve your goals.

You are Enough! No one can add to or take away from who you are. You were created enough. When you accept this my dear, you are ready to hold the account to your life. Taking accountability for your actions is an essential step towards personal and professional growth. By following these five steps, you can learn to accept responsibility for your actions, manage your emotions, face your fears, maintain a positive attitude, and believe in yourself. Remember, accountability is not always easy, but it is a necessary step towards achieving success in all aspects of life. So, take these steps, stay focused, and keep moving forward towards your goals.

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5 Tips for Productivity as a Solopreneur Working from Home

As a solopreneur, working from home can be both a blessing and a curse. While you have the flexibility to work on your own terms, it can be challenging to maintain a work-life balance. Productivity is key, and implementing some simple tips can help you stay focused and achieve your goals. Here are five ways to boost your productivity while working from home:

  1. Establish a Solid Routine

Having a consistent daily routine can make a big difference in your productivity. Set a schedule and stick to it as much as possible. Plan out your daily tasks for the week and prioritize them according to importance. A solid routine can help lower your stress levels and improve your overall health.

  1. Use a Matrix To-Do List

Creating a to-do list is a great way to stay on track, but using a matrix to-do list is even more effective. Prioritize your most important tasks at the top of the list and work your way down. Income-generating activities should be at the top while less significant tasks, such as cooking dinner during work hours, should be closer to the bottom. Utilize automation to keep your to-do list at a minimum.

  1. Take Breaks

Remember to take breaks throughout the day. Outsourcing certain tasks can help you stay focused on what you need to do. Celebrate your achievements, reflect on your progress, and refresh your mind and body.

  1. Create a Designated Work Space

Designate a specific area in your home as your workspace. This helps you mentally separate your work and personal life, making it easier to focus on your tasks during work hours. It also helps ensure that your work environment is conducive to productivity.

  1. Wake Up Early

Successful people often wake up early, and for good reason. Getting up an hour earlier can create extra time in your day to accomplish more. Use this time to focus on income-generating activities, plan your day, or simply enjoy some quiet time before starting your workday.

Incorporating these five tips into your routine can help you stay focused and productive as a solopreneur working from home. Remember to prioritize your tasks, take breaks, and establish a designated workspace. With a little effort and discipline, you can achieve your goals and succeed as a solopreneur.

The Subconscious and Core Beliefs: 3 Ways They Interact

Have you ever felt like you’re in a constant battle with yourself? Like there’s a part of you that keeps sabotaging your best intentions and goals? According to the father of psychology, Sigmund Freud, this internal conflict is the result of the interplay between three parts of our psyche: the ego, superego, and id. While the ego represents our conscious self, the other two are part of our subconscious mind. In this article, we’ll explore how the subconscious works with our core beliefs and three ways in which they interact.

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The id represents our basic level of comfort and pattern of behavior based on instinct. It consists of our biological and intrinsic personality traits (both which are unique to us and those inherent humanity instincts such as our survival motives). The id is most dominant when we are first born as it is the part of our psyche responsible for demanding our basic needs and urges to be met. The id operates out of the subconscious part of our mind and remains unaffected by our experiences and personal growth. It operates on what Freud referred to as the “pleasure principle”, which causes individuals to seek out immediate gratification, regardless of the consequences.

Have you ever felt as though there is something missing from your life which you cannot identify? While we may not have the vocabulary to describe what we are missing in life; we are aware of the obstacles which get in our way. If left unmanaged, the id is what drives individuals to remove all obstacles without a second thought for morality and ethics.  

The ego, unlike the id, operates on a reality principle by considering the childish and selfish needs of the id with the world around it. It is responsible for rationalizing and compromising our essential needs and demands by meeting the id to its best ability when it encourages behavior which may trigger negative consequences. The ego, however, also seeks pleasure and aims to avoid pain at all cost but does so in a less irrational and animalistic way. The ego aims to serve the needs of the id in a more grounded and sensible manner. As our official protector from pain, the ego is responsible for all the behavioral and mental responses to feelings of anxiety and distress. While this problem-solving aspect of the ego is usually effective, its solutions to many problems can be destructive when it indulges the id in the process.  

The superego serves as our moral compass by incorporating the morals and values we adopt from both our family and society.  The superego’s role is to manage and control the impulses of the id so that the individual can live a life in accordance with both their conscience and their “ideal self” which is an idea of the superego. Naturally, when the ego falls short of the superego’s ideals, the superego punishes the ego through chastisement and guilt. The greater the superego’s idealization of self is the greatest the punishments the ego endures for its failure and perceived failures. The wise mind develops in life as we surpass the ego (our outlook, opinions, emotions and limited beliefs and perspectives) through continued observations. It is not controlled or motivated by anger, sadness, depression, anxiety, or fear, but by its own independent power. When we take ownership of ourselves, our desires, pride, envy and lust, we grow in morality and maturity. 

 “How do my core beliefs influence my behavior and relationships?”

Core beliefs are the deep-seated thoughts and assumptions we hold about ourselves, others, and the world around us. They often go unrecognized, yet consistently affect our lives. Negative core beliefs can have a significant impact on our behavior and relationships. For example, if we believe that we are unlovable, we may struggle with low self-esteem and lack of confidence, which can affect our ability to form healthy relationships. Similarly, if we believe that people cannot be trusted, we may have difficulty forming and maintaining meaningful relationships.

Our core beliefs also affect how we operate in the world. If we believe that the world is a harsh and unforgiving place, we may be less likely to take risks and pursue our goals. On the other hand, if we have positive core beliefs, such as believing in our own worth and ability to succeed, we are more likely to take on challenges and achieve our goals.

It’s important to become aware of our core beliefs and challenge them if they are negative or inaccurate. By doing so, we can strengthen our superego and develop a more positive outlook on ourselves and the world around us. This can lead to greater self-fulfillment and more positive relationships with others.

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